All factors have been considered and the difficult decision has been made. It is time to help your elderly parent/s move into a reputable long term care facility. You want to keep the stress to a minimum and make this transition as smooth as possible. Below are some important steps to consider when moving your elderly parent/s.
1) Involve your loved one as much as possible. It is so important to ensure that your elderly parents feel understood and their feelings validated throughout this transition. Involve them as much as possible in the decision making process. Maybe they have an idea of where they would like to live, or they have a valuable item they want to bring. Offer to escort them to various homes so they can get an idea of what they like and dislike. Ensure they feel comfortable with these discussions by presenting them optimistically through someone they trust. Remember to highlight the positives, and offer compassion and validation to any negative feelings.
2) Provide the senior with an opportunity to ask questions and discuss his or her concerns. Create a safe and comfortable environment where they can openly discuss their concerns. This will be a life changing event for them in which they may feel worried, angry or sad. Ensure they feel supported and able to express these feelings and concerns openly. This will give you all an opportunity to work through these negative feelings and enable you to move in a more positive direction!
3) Safeguard the senior’s personal possessions and get help From Senior Move Managers. These services will help tremendously with the downsizing process. Senior Move Managers are trained experts in handling the impact of a transition such as this. They can help navigate through negative emotions and anxiety by listening to concerns, downsizing appropriately, and carefully packing and moving your loved ones belongings to the new facility. This will take a lot of pressure off of you, so you can focus on your loved one.
4) Be present during this transition. Please remember that this process can be very emotional for your elderly loved ones. It is important for them to feel loved and supported by family. Do your best to be present during this transition as much as possible so your loved one doesn’t feel alone.
5) Honor the individual’s preferences and allow him or her to maintain control. A common issue with these transitions is the feeling of a loss of control and individuality. Keep the senior informed throughout the planning process, and allow them to make decisions. Involve your loved one in setting up their new home! Maybe they have a favorite picture they’d like hung, or they’d like to have a room with a large window. Validate these desires and do your best to accommodate them. This is their new home after all!
6) Pay attention to details and maintain the senior’s daily routine as much as possible. Ensure that there is consistency with meal times and medication administration. Maybe they like to read the newspaper with their breakfast. This sense of normalcy can help the transition go much more smoothly. Also involve your loved one in some activities around the facility. Bingo, cards, and music activities are common ones! They’re a great way to socialize, boost morale and combat loneliness and depression.
7) Make the new home resemble (as much as possible) the old home. You want to make sure it feels like home. Ask your loved ones how they would like to decorate. Do they want their bed made the same way as it was before? Maybe they would like their nightstand to have the same lamp and candles. This is their new home, do your best to make sure it feels like it!
8) Help the resident become acclimated. You can go on tours with your loved one around the facility. Find out if there is a welcome committee to show you around and introduce you to some friendly faces. As stated above, get them involved in some fun activities! Do your best to be involved during the first few meetings so your loved one feels comfortable and at ease.
In summary, just make sure your loved one feels comfortable and validated. Hire a Seniors Move Management company so they can take the stress out of moving and you can focus on your loved one. This transition can be difficult and the loss of control can feel overwhelming for your elderly parents. Be ready to listen and address their concerns while trying to remain optimistic for them. Help them adjust to their new home by decorating, creating a routine, and involving them in some social gatherings! Always do your best to be present, and make them feel at home. We hope these tips help you make the transition to Long Term Care go a little more smoothly!